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|Subject: May.11 COLOR MAG: True Love Confession - "I have not forgotten her up to now" Wed May 18, 2011 10:11 pm|| |
May 2011 Calvin Chen: True Love Confession - "I have not forgotten her up to now"
Translated by Nastyhobbit@AF
Relaxed in noisy places
Since the start of this year, I wanted to try even more different things, try even more mature roles, try even more different hosting styles, and started to think about a lot of things. Actually at first Iím the kind of person who thinks a lot, and previously I thought about how the media sees things. Even though Iím a Scorpio I also have a lot of self confidence yet always want to meet other peopleís expectations. You can also say on the surface Iím a very relaxed person, but Iím actually like a duck swimming on water (looks calm on the surface but itís actually busy paddling its feet underwater). Iím the kind of guy who demands a lot of himself.
Because work takes a lot out of me, I value my free time even more, and I want to restore it to a relaxed degree. For example when Iím on holidays, Iíd rather take the MRT and visit the night market. Iím still an open person who loves going to public places, itís in these sorts of places where Iím the most relaxed. Thatís why I love going out with friends to eat out, noisily enjoying ourselves. I like being with other people, I donít like to be lonely, especially when Iím in a bad mood. (Aside from work, what other stuff do you care about the most?) Family and friends. Or relationships! I always have big expectations when it comes to relationships. Iím a man of action, I usually wonít just silently or secretly love a person, Iíd go out and tell her. As far as Iím concerned, at least I have 50% chance of success, my love wonít be too miserable. If you find true love, be brave enough to say it!
I usually encourage friends, that if they find true love, be brave enough to say it out loud. Personally Iím like Da Dongís character in It Started With A Kiss, Ah Jin, who bravely pursues the girl he likes. During the time I pursued a girl, I also suffered defeat. Even though I did take the initiative, the girl already had a boyfriend, so I immediately retreated. Being the ďother guyĒ is something I cannot do. Because I always throw myself headlong into the relationship, so at the start I observe to what extent I can get into it.
My first love relationship was crazy! I was just in high school, my first girlfriendís father was against our relationship, her family came to my school looking for me, only then I learned she didnít come home, then when I came home I only learned she was waiting for me outside my doorstep. She left home in order to see me. Now I still remember it, itís really unforgettable.. Even if the relationship died later on, relationships canít forced, it has to be immediate, it has to be grasped immediately. (What if a girl is interested in you and pursues you?) It depends if I like her. I donít like wasting other peopleís time. If itís solely as friends we can go out to eat or something, but if she has other ideas and I donít like her that way, then Iíll just avoid her.I just canít forget it
Generally speaking, Iím very brave when it comes to love. When I confront a relationship thatís almost gone, Iíd try to restore the relationship, I would try many times, then when I really discover her feelings are gone, only then will I give up. The most painful was my relationship with my girlfriend in Canada. At the time, we loved each other to death, but now sheís already married. It was my friend who told me about her getting married, the most painful for me was that we were together for 5 years, I always thought weíd get married eventually, but after we broke up, she got married to someone else within a year. I was really heartbroken. I wanted to tell her, ďHow could you forget me so quickly?Ē Then afterwards I realized the time this happened, I was too busy with work, and neglected to pay attention to her, and she and I are the same age, and she already wanted to get married, she who didnít have any career ambitions, wanted to marry a good man. This point I overlooked, because we were already going steady. But later on she didnít have a sense of security, and now that I think about it, I feel very sad. If I meet her again, I want to ask her, ďHow are you doing? Are you happy?Ē, like Eason Chanís song ďLong time no seeĒ, youíd still want to see this person. But if sheís with her husband, then Iíd just avoid greeting her, otherwise what? I couldnít very well introduce myself to her husband, ďHello Iím her ex-boyfriend.Ē (Can you greet her as a friend?) I canít, itís too painful. Some loves wonít just fade away, itís just distant, thatís all.
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|Subject: Re: May.11 COLOR MAG: True Love Confession - "I have not forgotten her up to now" Wed May 18, 2011 10:59 pm|| |
I agree. When I see my ex-boyfriend with his girlfriend,
I just walk past him and do nothing, cause I feel it is
awkward and it is very pain in the heart. Unforgettable memory..